Emily's surgery went well. We got at the hospital around 8 for pre-op. She went into surgery around 9:30 and got out around 11:00 but we had a bit of hard time with her after surgery coming out of anesthesia. So we didn't leave the hospital until around 12:30. The dentist was pleased with how it all went. He said the four front teeth that we were so upset about removing were already loose and he feels their replacement adult teeth will start to come in by Christmas. That was wonderful news because we were worried it could be as long as 1 to 2 years. She was VERY mad about the Doctor taking her teeth and feels she is ugly now. She refuses to smile. Poor baby, I hope the Dr. is right and those new ones come on in soon.

Daddy promised her a trip to Toys 'R Us for being good. She slept for another say 4 hours or so that afternoon. When she woke up she didn't remember going to Toys 'R Us and picking toys out. So she was really excited to see what she got! LOL

And Daddy doesn't think we should put her in Dance class?

Where do I even begin on all the crafts we've worked on this summer? Air dry clay figures, painting wooden letters that spell their names, painting pre-made figures, homemade cork boards, latch hook, gluing puzzles together to make posters, weaving loom pot holders and dishrags, etc.... I don't know if the kitchen table will ever be the same again! LOL

I couldn't help but catch myself singing this as I baked, did dishes and laundry this morning! You see for a couple of months now (or really for as long as I can remember). I have been sick. I've walked around feeling daily like I had a cold or the flu. It was just my allergies and I medicated and medicated with all sorts of OTC meds. I took Benadryl, Tylenol cold and sinus, Mucinex DM, Alavert, and Claratin all to no avail. I couldn't think straight, I fell asleep every time I sat still, I had trouble waking up, I spent the first 2 hours of every day sneezing and blowing my nose, I had head aches and a sore throat daily, wheezed and coughed. I'll stop listing symptoms now and just tell you I was miserable! I finally decided that I just couldn't live like that anymore. So, I woke up yesterday and told my DH "NO MORE! I'M SICK AND TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED! I'M GOING TO THE DOCTOR. GIVE ME PRESCRIPTION MEDS OR GIVE ME DEATH!". DH politely looked at me like I was crazy and quietly said he'd deposit some money into my spending account to pay the doctor and buy my medicine. I nearly kissed the doctor when he said he give me a shot to give me some immediate help in breathing! In fact I think I scared him a little with my excitement because he then carefully pointed out I could only come in for shots every three months. LOL On top of the shot he gave me prescriptions for daily allergy medicines (Allegra and Nasacort). Together here is it just the day after and I feel like a human again! What an amazing difference!

Just a couple of completely random thoughts this morning:

1. It really cracks me up the way that us buying my husband a grill with the change the kids and I had been saving up has really changed him. He used to fuss and fume about the way we stole change and how not a nickel could be set down with out us snatching it up. Now he leaves his change on the dresser for us every day! LOL

2. The other day I was reading one of my favorite blogs and the writer was joking around about even the flags in Texas being bigger. She went on about the huge honking American Flags that our car lots have. It cracked me up not only because the funniest things are those that are true but because my husband just attached two big ol' flags to the front of our house (one American and one Christian). I pointed out that we didn't have a Texas flag and he said that I was right and he'll see about getting one ASAP! LOL

I scored a 92% but I have to admit if it wasn't for having studied most of this stuff fairly recently by homeschooling Branflake I don't think I would scored so high!

The problem rears it's ugly head:
Last time I wrote I told you my MIL was coming to visit and I was trying to get the house clean. Well, I did finally manage to get inspired enough to get my unmanageable house manageable enough to let someone in for a visit. However, while preparing for Grandma's stay Emily began having tooth aches and running a grand fever of 103. Of course this started on a Friday night because you never fall ill on a Monday morning when it is nice an easy to pick up a phone and make an appointment. So, we went through the weekend with cool baths, mouth rinses, gum number and fever medications. (Read little to no sleep for mom and child here.) Much to my relief Monday did finally come but they couldn't see her until Tuesday. (Read another night without sleep here.)

( Brandon is a side note here. Monday I did manage to get his new Social Security card with his bran spanking new last name on it. Now I just got to get his birth certificate changed and he is all set up. All his legal documents will call Cecil his Daddy. Yeah! )

The dentist appointment:
That Tuesday was Emily's first ever dentist visit. Honestly, I had put it off hoping her bad baby teeth would fall out before they were a true problem. She has always hated doctors and has to be held down by multiple people to get a shot. Plus, poor Brandon had a very traumatic dentist appointment at what was supposed to be a great dentist's office that I guess scarred me as much as him. So, I picked one of if not the best pediatric dentist in the near by larger town and convinced her this was going to be like going to Kid's Zone. When we got there I discovered it nearly was a trip to Kid's Zone. It was a very kid friendly atmosphere with toys and video games in the waiting rooms, great friendly and playful staff, awards for good behavior and TVs with headsets playing kid's movies above every exam table.

The diagnosis:
Her x-ray's did show that her 4 bottom front teeth do have the adult teeth under them about to come up. So she should be losing them soon. All other teeth in her mouth need work to be done to them. As they began telling all that would have to been done I sat nodding, clear up infection "yes please do that", extract these molars "yes, I see that needs to be done", resin composite fillings for cavities that can be seen "yes, I hate those ugly silver caps and crowns", have to put silver crowns here because these are weight baring teeth "yes, well that makes sense", this kind of extensive dental work would be too traumatic and take months of dentist visits to do in office we would only do this kind of work under general anesthesia that way it can be done all at once and she won't even remember it being done "OH praise the Lord! YES! Do that." See I want the best for my daughter and I should have gotten her in sooner. So at this point I wanted to make sure every little thing she needed to get done was done. Plus, that is why you pay out the rear for insurance right?

The Bill:
From here the news goes sooooo down hill right to spiraling out of control. Then the shuffle us into a little office to go over billing and scheduling the surgery. Now my husband was on his way back from Oklahoma with his mom in the car when I call him to ask what on earth we are going to do. The bill was going to 4,183 for just the dentist, plus the hospital operating room (around 5,000), plus the anesthesiologist (350). Our dental insurance tops off at 1,000 and will not cover the work she needs for baby teeth (they only cover that for adult teeth)!! Finally after multiple calls to my husband who still in transit it was decided that we'd call them back to set up the surgery as soon as we figured out how to get the funds. I was still in shock when leaving and actually forgot to stop at the counter and pay my payment for that day's visit.

In the Mean Time:
The antibiotics didn't start to help for a few days. She seemed OK during the day but at night the tooth aches and fever would kick in. (Read little to no sleep for mom and child here.) I was thankful to have the prescription pain killer because children's Tylenol didn't touch her pain. Grandma got here Tuesday night to a very tired and stressed out family from the dentist visit and looming debt problem. Thankfully I had made a two week menu and had done the appropriate shopping before she got here so that took the stress out of figuring out what to cook for dinner each night. Cecil took the first week she was here off (even though he still worked from home on the computer as usual, but not nearly as much as he normally does). It was wonderful to have Grandma and Daddy here. I am blessed with one of those really agreeable non demanding mother in laws. So we had a really relaxed daily routine worked out. Coffee and breakfast and talking at the dining room table in the morning. Reading, a puzzle, a movie, sitting on the porch watching the weather, a little yard work or cleaning, may be a craft with the kids,or may be a nap in the afternoons. Then meet back in the kitchen to visit while cooking supper, eating and cleaning up afterwards in the evenings. Crawl in bed when we realized we'd stayed up too late and do it all again . While she was here I got to know her better and shared with her some of my favorite things most of which fell in the realm of food or beauty products. We also shot off a few fireworks before she left. We were hoping to have her here for the 4th but it didn't work out that way. Cecil's brother came to get her on Sunday night. The kids started missing her before they even left the drive way. We think she may come stay with us awhile again in Aug or Sept for the kid's birthdays.

The Solution:
After the initial shock of the huge bill that had to be paid upfront for Emily to get cared for wore off we started thinking of our options. Cecil had already taken out a loan on his 401 when we needed to get Brandon's room basically rebuilt a few years back and it still needs a year and half to be paid off. But he thought he could get a medical hardship withdrawal from it. So I called his Human Resources department at his job and began the work of trying to get that process started. After several phone calls, visits, and faxes between his work, the dentist office and myself it finally got worked out and Cecil went up to sign for the withdrawal from his 401. Here I owe a big thanks to the wonderful woman in his Human Resources department and the woman in the billing office of the dentist. They were both very kind and helpful. So, then we sat on pins and needles waiting to see if the request would be approved and a check sent. When the check finally made it in (on a Saturday evening so we had to wait until Monday to deposit) we called on Monday and asked them to schedule the surgery asap so our girlie could have this all behind her.

The New Problems:
As soon as I get off the phone requesting that they schedule ASAP Cecil calls to say that the bank put a hold on the 401 check because it was so large that we'll have to wait for around 5 days before we can have access to that money. GRRRRRRRRRR! Ok well no problem because soon after that the lady from the dentist office calls and says the insurance company medical department will not let her pre-certify Emily for surgery because they don't cover that procedure. GRRRRRRR! So I called the insurance company and after about an hour and half most of which was spent on hold and after telling the first three representatives that their answer was not good enough to please give me some one higher up I finally reached someone just under a manager that said her manager said, "Yes, for any child under the age of 7 oral surgery in a hospital is covered as long and a doctor says it is for health reasons." To which I said, " and your name, extension and rank are what and this conversation will be noted where?"

The Schedule:
We now have been able to schedule Emily's surgery. She has to have a physical on July 16 in order to have the surgery. Then if all goes well she will have surgery on July 19. She will have 6 teeth removed (4 front top teeth and 2 bottom very back molars), 7 composite resin fillings, and three children's root canals with stainless steel crowns. The four front teeth were a hard decision for us. One option was to have root canals and resin crowns put on them. The other option was to remove them. Our first instinct was the crowns but they are not covered by insurance and was going to cost us 800 out of pocket. Finally the dentist told us that these are teeth that would really only be there for 1 to 2 more years tops (if that long) before they came out to be replaced by adult teeth. Our decision was really did we want to spend that kind of money on teeth that may not be there soon. I feel bad that she'll have that gap for a while but it was what we finally settled on. This will be an out patient surgery at the hospital (not the dentist's office) with the hospital anesthesiologist (not a dentist tech) administering the anesthesia. Being at the hospital goes a long way in making me feel like she will be safe. It should take about an hour for the surgery and about an hour for recovery from anesthesia. They promise that baby teeth do not get dry socket when removed and that there will be almost instant difference in how she feels and eats.

You Are 85% Real

There's hardly a person on this earth more real than you are. You have no problem showing people who you are, flaws and all. For you, there couldn't be any other way. Because it's way too stressful to live an inauthentic life. You're very comfortable with yourself. And because of this, you're able to live an exciting, interesting, and challenging life.

WELL I ALWAYS DID THINK I WAS PRETTY MUCH A "REAL" GIRL. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET KIND OF GAL.

Ok there is really only one week of VBS. But in my house it usually goes something like this:

One week spent preparing for VBS. I teach the K - 6th crafts classes at our church. So at least a week is spent buying supplies, cutting supplies, making decorations for the room etc.

Then one week of VBS. Oddly enough VBS is only from 8 to 11 yet nothing else much really seems to get done that week. It is not just me either at least three days that week both me and Em came home and took a nap. And Emily NEVER naps!

Then one week recovering from VBS. During this week I try to find the house after the two weeks of neglect it received. I must be getting better because other than being very behind on laundry the house work wasn't really in all that of a bad shape.

Here is a picture of the crafts we did this year:



We did the Game Day theme so they are all sports oriented. There is a cork message board, a wooden gym bag tag, a sports bead zipper pull, a jersey prayer journal, and a CD case picture frame.

Also Cecil's birthday fell in during VBS again this year. The kids and I had been saving change for months so we wouldn't have to ask him for money but still be able to buy him a great present. We got him a gas grill with an ignition switch, 2 burners, a thermostat, a shelf on one side and a side burner on the other.



Not too shabby to have been paid for with change if you ask me.

Any way this is clean up week. I did get a day out of the house yesterday. I took Bran and his friend Mason up to work our church's food bank. Then a member of our group scheduled a Texas wildlife biologist to come and speak to our group about snakes. (sorry I forgot my camera)

Afterwards I did a bit of errand running, got the boys hair cut, grocery store, snack at Sonic, ordered our Angel Food, etc. I've been finding it hard to inspire myself to get the house clean. I know I need to get my rear in gear. My MIL is supposed to come stay a week or two. My DH is planning to pick her up Saturday so I really do need to get going. I really thought after taking a day off yesterday (I even just popped frozen pizza in the oven for supper) would be the break I needed to really dig in there today. So far .... not so much.

OK I took a little while off blogging while finishing up the school year. We worked hard trying to get to a good stopping place for the summer. Emily will work a little through out the summer because she has just now gotten on a roll and learning in leaps and bounds. I don't think stopping now for 3 months is a good idea. Brandon has a summer schedule:

Monday- Spelling & Journal
Tuesday- Spelling & Math
Wednesday- Spelling & Journal
Thursday- Spelling & Math
Friday- Spelling & Journal

His Spelling and handwriting still leave a lot to be desired. Spelling takes about 10 minutes tops. I started him doing the journal a couple of months ago to improve his spelling, handwriting and grammar. Math I just didn't want to waste the beginning of the school year reminding him everything he already learned.

While I was on my posting hiatus we had our last day of AHS/CAHE Spring Soccer. We finished up the season with the last game, a picnic, and trophies. I didn't get a good picture of the kids receiving their trophies because I was handing them out. So, I took a picture of them with them on their awards day.

The same day of the soccer party we also had an afternoon field trip to KETK TV station where Scott Chesner our local weather man talked to the kids about all that goes into putting the weather on TV. Then we toured the rest of the studio.


That dark blob on the left upper hand side of the monitor is the back Em's head. She was wearing her lime green soccer jersey so her shirt didn't show up while standing against the green screen. Mason was carrying her on his shoulders so it just looks like this head is floating around.

Weather Area

Green Screen

Kids in front of Weather Truck

Maddie, Branflake, Mason, Mariah, and Emily

The soccer party and field trip were Wednesday. Thursday we went to the library. We returned 22 books the librarian pointed out. Then we checked out 33! 25 of those were Emily's. She simply wouldn't budge. She just had to have them all.

We spent Memorial Day weekend playing and working in the yard. Cecil tried cutting down the grape vine that has overtaken our back fence. Little did he know it was also covered with poison ivy. He now has a poison ivy rash from head to toe. He looks like a plague victim. I tried to take a picture of him but the camera didn't pick up the true hideousness of the rash. Otherwise we did lots of grilling and relaxing. Cecil was off Friday through Monday so we enjoyed time with him. (Even though he did work on the computer all weekend, surprise?)

I enjoyed a nice brunch and shopping with my mom on Sat. morning. Then Saturday night we cooked a huge nice meal to celebrate the kids finishing up the school year. I gave them their last report cards, their awards and a couple of small gifts.






Now I've got one week to get ready for VBS. I'm teaching crafts K-6th again. I love VBS but I usually start getting ready way before the last week before it. This year's theme is sporty so it should be really easy to decorate for. I better log off for now and go back to cutting ribbon and plastic folders.